STILLNESS
- Paul Waugh
- Dec 12, 2025
- 1 min read

YOU CANNOT HEAR TRUTH WHILE RUSHING
Rushing forces your mind into survival mode. Your awareness narrows, your breathing tightens, your thoughts speed up, and your emotional brain takes control.
Stillness and rushing cannot exist at the same time.
When you reduce your pace — even slightly — your mind shifts from pressure to presence. You see more. You understand more. You choose better.
Slowing down is not inefficiency; it is clarity.
Think of a rushed, emotionally charged argument.
When you’re rushing:
you interrupt
you don’t listen
you assume
you jump to conclusions
your heart rate rises
your brain is scanning for threat, not truth
You’re not hearing what the person is actually saying — you’re hearing your fear and defensiveness.
But when you pause, breathe, and slow your pace:
you hear tone
you hear intention
you hear the real meaning
you respond from presence, not protection
Slowing down transforms the entire conversation.
Exercise (3–4 minutes)
Perform one everyday action at half speed — walking, making tea, or washing your hands. Let your nervous system follow your slower pace.
Clarity Question
“What important thing do I miss when I move too fast?”
Action Step
Slow down one conversation or decision today by just a few seconds.
Evening Check-In
What did slowing down allow me to see?



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